Carlos asked:
im pretty pissed because i wrote all this out already and my computer froze and deleted it all.. arrrg.. this is my problem. im married, my wife and i do not live together WE ARE NOT LEGALLY SEPARATED OR DIVORCED yet. We havent even begun the proceedings.. We got married feb. 09 and I left her may 09. We have no children together thank god! About a month ago my wife vandalized my car to the point it will not run. the damage is $9500. I turned all the evidence I had implicationg my wife into 2 police departments. I had pictures of the car, the estimate for repairs needed, and i even had a recording of a conversation I had with some folks who WITNESSED my wife vandalizing my car and both police departments said that they could do NOTHING about it.. They said it doesnt matter if i had the car before the marriage, it doesnt matter if her names not on the title, we are still married. It is hers as much as it is mine.. Fast forward to last nite. Im not typing out all the crap I typed out earlier as to the circumstances of why I chose to do this but I came to the decision last nite to take HER car. I have the key, Ive always had the key and I took it. Now.. going back to what she did to my car.. The police said they couldnt do anything about it because it is her car too.. So why did the police tell me today that the car is reported stolen and If im caught driving it i will go to jail?? What the hell? Is it possible the police officer told me that in hopes id just bring her the car back and restore the peace? So he doesnt have to be bothered with nonsense like this?? I understand in divorce court me taking her car may look bad but im not worried about that… screw that.. i NEED to know about the legal side of things! If she could get away with destroying my car, how is it that i cannot take her car?? I even have her TITLE! Is there anything I can do with the title like add my name onto it? Whats messed up is I dont have a car, Iost my job because of it.. I hear shes getting a new car and fearing that she would trade the car I took from her last nite in for the new car I made the decision last nite to take it because I know once she buys a new car she will not put it in her name therefore in divorce court this new car shes getting will not even be an issue because it isnt in her name.. So I took the car because I have to survive too! She has 100’s of ways to get around town, to work, hell some idiot is buying her this NEW car… I have NOTHING! Nada, Zip, ziltch.. I need lots of input because I dont plan on giving her this car back until i get my own car or the divorce judge orders me to give it back to her.. Please read this carefully, 2-3 times if u have to because i need help. I just dont understand how she can walk all over me and not get in a lick of trouble and i take her car and all the sudden i can be facing jailtime blah blah blah..
im pretty pissed because i wrote all this out already and my computer froze and deleted it all.. arrrg.. this is my problem. im married, my wife and i do not live together WE ARE NOT LEGALLY SEPARATED OR DIVORCED yet. We havent even begun the proceedings.. We got married feb. 09 and I left her may 09. We have no children together thank god! About a month ago my wife vandalized my car to the point it will not run. the damage is $9500. I turned all the evidence I had implicationg my wife into 2 police departments. I had pictures of the car, the estimate for repairs needed, and i even had a recording of a conversation I had with some folks who WITNESSED my wife vandalizing my car and both police departments said that they could do NOTHING about it.. They said it doesnt matter if i had the car before the marriage, it doesnt matter if her names not on the title, we are still married. It is hers as much as it is mine.. Fast forward to last nite. Im not typing out all the crap I typed out earlier as to the circumstances of why I chose to do this but I came to the decision last nite to take HER car. I have the key, Ive always had the key and I took it. Now.. going back to what she did to my car.. The police said they couldnt do anything about it because it is her car too.. So why did the police tell me today that the car is reported stolen and If im caught driving it i will go to jail?? What the hell? Is it possible the police officer told me that in hopes id just bring her the car back and restore the peace? So he doesnt have to be bothered with nonsense like this?? I understand in divorce court me taking her car may look bad but im not worried about that… screw that.. i NEED to know about the legal side of things! If she could get away with destroying my car, how is it that i cannot take her car?? I even have her TITLE! Is there anything I can do with the title like add my name onto it? Whats messed up is I dont have a car, Iost my job because of it.. I hear shes getting a new car and fearing that she would trade the car I took from her last nite in for the new car I made the decision last nite to take it because I know once she buys a new car she will not put it in her name therefore in divorce court this new car shes getting will not even be an issue because it isnt in her name.. So I took the car because I have to survive too! She has 100’s of ways to get around town, to work, hell some idiot is buying her this NEW car… I have NOTHING! Nada, Zip, ziltch.. I need lots of input because I dont plan on giving her this car back until i get my own car or the divorce judge orders me to give it back to her.. Please read this carefully, 2-3 times if u have to because i need help. I just dont understand how she can walk all over me and not get in a lick of trouble and i take her car and all the sudden i can be facing jailtime blah blah blah..