k…heres the deal…my father took off when i was a baby..we always knew he was in florida, and now that my mom is all over the news magically he comes out of the woodwork to talk to the papers(article below)… then he can’t even admit that he’s my father…i have struggled with abandanment and everything else due to him, and thought that i had done well in therapy, but now i am completely unraveling…due to the fact that my mom is all over the news, i absolutly cannot contact the newspaper, not that i even think those vultures would help me…i know that theres public records and all that, that i can look into, but i dont even know where to begin…please help me, i feel like i’m crumbling to pieces with whats going on with my mom, and now that my dad is back on my mind, i need to find him. thanks in advance.
‘SM’ MARRIAGE FROM HELL
‘DOMINATRIX’S’ EX ADMITS HE WAS ABUSIVE DRUNK
By JENNIFER FERMINO and LORENA MONGELLI
BUSINESS IN A BIND: Sandra Chemero (above) ran an SM brothel in this Bedford mansion, cops say. Her ex says she wasn’t into kinky stuff during their marriage.
March 5, 2007 — Years before she allegedly began using whips and chains on eager clients of her SM business, kinky Westchester mansion mistress Sandra Chemero endured the real thing in five stormy years of wedlock, her ex-husband admitted yesterday.
Christopher Chemero, 52, owned up to being somewhat abusive during their marriage, which lasted from 1979 to 1984.
He was nonetheless shocked to learn of his ex’s arrest on a prostitution charge and her efforts to earn a living off SM sex games, which, he insisted, played no role in their marriage.
I wasn’t into that . . I’m really surprised to hear that about Sandy, Christopher Chemero told The Post at his home in Daytona Beach, Fla.
The marriage was the first for both. Sandra was 18 and Christopher was 24.
Christopher, who is now single, said he was an alcohol abuser when he wed, although she wasn’t much of a drinker.
He said he gave up drinking long ago.
He said he hasn’t heard from his ex in more than 20 years and, I really don’t know what’s going on in her life.
It was a vicious breakup, Christopher said.
Although divorce records say the couple had two children, I’m not sure one of them is mine, he said.
I could never say for sure if she cheated on me.
Christopher Chemero said he lives off disability payments, and is waiting for heart bypass surgery.
The men in my family don’t live very long, he said.
Meanwhile, Bedford cops pressed ahead with their investigation yesterday as a woman who used Sandra Chemero’s rented house as a place to sell makeup and clothing to cross-dressing men said the accused madam had a female partner in the SM business several months ago.
After an argument with Sandra, the other woman moved out of the house in September, the makeup artist said.
Asked if a second woman was involved, Bedford Police Lt. Robert Mazurak replied: I’m not going to say no, but I don’t want to mislead you . . . It’s under investigation.
Sandra Chemero, 46, is the only person charged thus far, and police have said that they believed she was working alone.
The makeup artist also said she believed Sandra had a boyfriend from Manhattan who worked on Wall Street. But that could not be immediately confirmed.
A number of Westchester County men are named in Sandra Chemero’s records, Mazurak said.
We are continuing to investigate. Where it’s going to end, I don’t know, he said.
Sandra Chemero, who is free on bail, was nowhere to be found yesterday.
She’s due in Bedford town court next week to answer misdemeanor charges of prostitution and possession of a stun gun.
The rabbinical school that owns the $3 million home has evicted Sandra under a clause in her lease barring illegal activity.
Her Web site advertised the century-old stately manner as The Sovereign Estate, describing it as a female-led household, headed by an elegant, attractive dominant woman.
Additional reporting by Patrick White and Bill Sanderson
jennifer.fermino@nypost.com
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