RogerE asked:
My girlfriend got a divorce 2 years ago and here is what her Final Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage says…The joint mortgage shall be the sole responsibility of Husband to pay after the date of the Final Judgment. Husband shall indemnify and hold Wife harmless from any cost, liability or expense arising from the joint mortgage and he shall remove her from the mortgage no later than 2 years after the date of the Final Judgment. Her Final was entered into record on May 30th, 2008. Now, in November of 2009, she is trying to buy a house and the lender says they can’t give her a mortgage because her ex-husband has been behind in his house payments for 4 or 5 months and that this bad credit is being charged NOT ONLY TO her ex’s credit report…BUT TO HERS!!! Now, if she is not responsible, per the Judge endorsed order of the court of Duval County, Florida, for the mortgage and ANY liability of such mortgage, then WHY is this information being placed on HER credit report by Wachovia? AND…are they CORRECT in doing this to her? If they are wrong, shouldn’t there be a way to fix this so she can buy a house and go on with her life? Please, someone out there help me to understand this! Thanks!
Love My Kids asked:
My husband and I have separated. I have expressed my desire to reconcile, however… and I quote it’s more complicated than that… not sure what in the world that means? He’s abandoned me and my children, left us in the home we lived in and closed our joint accounts, so that I am solely responsible for the mortgage, childcare and all utilities. The house is now in foreclosure, he gripped at me saying that I was living in a house I was not making payments on, when he chose to leave, is not paying child support (YET… I’ve filed, waiting on the SLOW AG) and says he will not make any more payments on the mortgage, although he is very upset that his credit is being damaged (mine too as we are joint owners). Here’s the puzzling thing… He only took with him a basket full of clothes, his pickup truck and car, his two motorcycles, leaving me with only one vehicle that has major brake issues and borderline heat. Everything else, the remainder of his clothes, his furniture he brought into the marriage, all his records and computer, all his tools and other garage items are still in our home. Also, ALL the utilities (electric, water, gas and cable) are still in his name. I’ve tried putting them in my name, but he called and placed a restriction on all the services so that all I could do was make payments. I AM NOT going to file for divorce (it is against my beliefs), he says he has but I work for our County office and he hasn’t done a thing. What kind of sick game do you think he’s playing? I KNOW he is not seeing anyone else. Do you think it could be mid-life crisis? He’s 43…
luv_tyman asked:
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and he lives in another state. He lives with his ex-wife and tells me because of the kids and because he is in the army. They live on base but Im not so sure now that he is really divorced. Ive called the county where he lives and they show no record of divorce. He visits me often and stays for a couple weeks at a time because he has classes where I live. Anyway to find out if he is really married or divorced??? Serious answers only please.
NO BODY asked:
I filed for divorce two times and my wife contested the divorce doth times. we have been married for 22 years and separated for 9 years. I just got information form one of our friends, that she got remarried last year. what i want to find out is if we are divorced as far as I know we are still legally married because the court denied the divorce the last time I filed which was in 2005 and the court said i could not file again until she and I go to a court approved marriage counselor. and they determine if the marriage can saved. or not. but she refuses to go. but i have been told you can find divorce and marriage records for free on line. I have searched yahoo and google and all of the ones that say they are free are not free at all. or do i have to go in to the county courts to find out? and does that cost? Thank you
I want to be divorced I have a nice lady I want to marry but can’t, because as far as I know I am Still married and I was told i can’t file again untill we both see the counselor.
